Spouses tend to shut down communication
Whenever the primary breadwinner is no longer in a position to contribute financially, they tend to pull away. They pull away because they may still be stunned at the turn of events or they may be a little ashamed, even though they had no control over losing their income. It can be emotionally devastating to the point to where that person just completely shuts down and has no idea what to do next. Often times they will fall into a slump rather than bounce back and find another job to support their family. This causes stress between a husband and a wife, because there has to be some kind of financial support to pay the bills, buy the groceries, and keep clothes on every ones back, and a roof over everyone’s head. When it becomes next to impossible to make ends meet, often times it causes a husband and wife to turn on each other. If there are kids involved, it becomes even harder because you need money to make sure they are taken care of and that they are being provided for.
Children fear a loss of security
Young children and teens alike, though they would be quick to deny it, crave a sense of security. They may rebel and fuss about having so many rules, but the truth is children thrive on a sense of stability in their formative years. Without it they can become sullen and fearful. This can manifest itself in them withdrawing from their normal activities and a noticeable slide in their school grades. It also increases the chances of your kids getting involved with drugs and alcohol. Bottom line, the less stability your children have, the more likely they are to turn away from the rest of the family and rebel.
Health takes a turn for the worse
As if the first two weren't enough, just when you are least likely to be able to afford medical bills, the burden of financial debt can cause serious health issues. Stress, frustration, and anger can all boil over leading to deadly heart attacks or debilitating strokes. The family then has to worry about losing a loved one, in addition to all of the debt. This is also a significant problem when you or one of your loved ones have a serious medical condition as they will increase the amount of medical bills and add to your family’s financial stress.
For ears the United States has been mired down in a sluggish economy and high unemployment rates. Everything seemed to tank when the housing industry took a big hit during the years of 2007-2009. Many have said it is the worst struggle the country has been in since the Great Depression. While the economy is slowly improving, it will be years before things are once again on an even keel. The right financial advice can help you weather the storm with your family intact.
