4 Familial Factors to Consider When Creating an Estate Plan

Everyone with valuable assets and property should have an estate plan that is up to date and keeps your family members in mind.

While a last will and testament might seem straightforward, questions and confusion can arise if things are not spelled out in detail. 

Here are some important considerations that should not be overlooked.

Children

Your children might inherit equal parts of your estate if that is what you wish. However, if you plan to distribute your assets differently, that needs to be specified clearly. 

Also, if one of your children happens to pass away before you do, you will need to determine what will happen to their share portion of the estate. You should also address potential questions about foster children, step-children, and underage children. 

In addition, your estate plan should indicate whether surviving parents, siblings or other extended family relatives will inherit anything from your estate. Don't assume that a verbal suggestion made now will be followed later.

Pets

Although it may seem peculiar to consider your pet's needs when you pass on, someone will need to assume responsibility for any animals you own at that time. 

A surviving spouse might care for them if they are in good health. However, lacking a spouse or another family member who has agreed to care for the pets, your will should state who should care for the pets or where they will go.

Separation or Divorce

If you remain separated or divorced for the rest of your life, the estate plan should clarify whether any family-held possessions, such as a car or real estate, will be given to the surviving ex-spouse. 

Some family heirlooms acquired during the marriage might be of interest to an ex-partner while any children may have no interest in these things. Specify this in your will to prevent tensions when the time comes.

Make an Estate Plan

Don't wait to prepare your estate plan. Consult estate lawyers who can provide valuable information and help you make important decisions about your last will and testament, a power of attorney if warranted, and a living will. 

Your loved ones need to know who will make critical life decisions if you are unable to. They also want to know who will administer your estate when you pass away. 

An estate plan will prepare your wishes in a legal format that cannot be questioned or changed without your consent.

Although these issues may seem difficult to deal with now, it is best to work out your future plans while you are healthy and under no pressure to do so. 

That approach makes it easier to remain objective about your decisions and to prepare family members for the time of your passing.

How to Talk to Your Adult Children About Your Finances

As we get older, we start to think about managing our financial assets for the future. Adult children should have some basic information about our monetary resources so they can assist in the event of illness or death. 

Talking about money may seem difficult for some, but the following tips can help you to take a proactive approach to inform your kids about your long-range plans and preferences.

Prepare Financial Documents

Whatever your financial situation, you should have a Last Will and Testament that explains how you want your assets handled when you pass on. The Will explains who will receive what, and under which circumstances, after your bills and expenses are paid. 

Having a tangible document that lays out a clear-cut plan for your adult children to follow will make it easier for them to take care of things financially when the time comes.

Discuss Finances Directly

Instead of dropping hints or making your adult kids wait to open your Will and find out your wishes, it is a good idea to update them now when you can answer questions and explain where all your accounts and assets are located. 

You don’t have to give them all the details, but a general idea will provide some guidance and save time when they need to take care of things.

Consult a Financial Planner

It makes sense to optimize your monetary assets so you can earn income from investments over time as well as leave something for your children or heirs. You can ensure your finances will be well-cared for by meeting with financial planners for information and ideas about the best ways to save for the future. A planner may recommend starting a stock portfolio. 

Or you may be interested in buying a rental property. There are many ways to build financial security and even wealth, and a financial planner can offer suggestions or experienced guidance to help you make wise choices with your money. You may want to take one or more of your adult children to a meeting with your financial adviser to keep everyone in the loop.

Update your Estate Plan

Over time, changes may occur in your financial circumstances or among family members that lead to changing your financial goals. Inform your adult children of major changes that will impact them so they can avoid surprises later.

You may decide to discuss your finances with adult kids incrementally instead of all at once. That works, too, as long as they have an idea of what to expect and how to proceed in the future.